Tuesday, January 17, 2012
Has your heart ever been in jail?
Or maybe it’s in jail right now? It kind of sucks, but you can’t make people love you back.
And YOU can’t love someone, just because they love you.
Or maybe you have a hopeless crush, that occupies your heart, so you can’t move on with your love-life. You have nothing, yet your heart is occupied, filled with love for somebody that might not even know how you feel.
The truth is, no matter how hard you try, you can’t make somebody love you.
A friend of mine is dealing with this issue right now. Her and her husband have been ‘working’ on their relationship. Actually, he is working on it. She still loves him with all her heart, even though he had a year-long affair and he now is trying to figure out, if he can still loves his wife ‘THAT WAY’ !
Let’s face it, if somebody has to TRY to love you ... has to WORK ON IT ... and tries to figure out if he/she still loves you THAT WAY, would you still be interested?
This is not the kind of LOVE I would want ... either you want to be with me, or you don’t.
For many people commitment is hard,
1. Do I love him/her enough?
2. Is this really it?
3. Fear of monogamy also enters the picture
Just remember, it is your heart and it should never be in jail